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Typically, when I feel called to write the words arrive in a barely containable flow. I capture as fast as I can with my meager typing skills and by the end I’m partially content with the accuracy of the result. This is exponentially true when trying to make sense of the dance that happens so…

Today was a long, busy day for me. No different than most other days. I like busy. I welcome busy. The busy I have chosen for myself is full of mindfully created experiences to serve in ways that offer value to my family and community. I embrace my busy. Yet even amidst this love for…

How awake are you? If you are reading this, you woke up today. You had a moment earlier when you moved from sleeping to perceiving the world around you through your senses again for the first time. Yes, for the first time, again, and again, and again. The fact that the date is, or is…

On seeing the truth of it The soldiers of the patriarchyare panicked and weak,carrying their automatic ejaculatorydeath machines into our Capitols.Self-congratulatory sentimentall around for invading the hallsthey built to keep us downto tell the world they aretoo manly to wear a mask.They will not be controlledas a woman waits for seven daysto control her own body.They will…

Healing and Amplifying the Integration of the Erotic Self in the Waning Patriarchy In American culture, we often hear about the pursuit of happiness. It is a worthy pursuit, a pursuit in which we wouldn’t get very far without pleasure. I offer the pursuit of pleasure holds the promise for peace, fulfillment, and personal power.…

The bewilderment and adventure of living with mirror touch and other polysyns After living over thirty years wondering why other people didn’t taste butterscotch when they said, heard, or read ‘interesting,’ learning about synesthesia was a welcome wave of awareness amidst the chaos. I remember being in elementary school and watching a friend fall from…

Finally, Too Many Have Awakened The fate of the human race and the planet has always been in women’s hands. We know it and we act accordingly. We have led the way in consciousness-raising through our creating and nurturing for millennia. The fate of the human race and the planet has always been in women’s…

Why you can’t think your way through an emotional question. One of the most common questions people ask me when we are deep into the questions about their life’s path is, “But how will I know, like truly know?” In some ways it is an excellent question. Many of us were raised and live in a…

Is it time to question your place in the game? “We are the only species that lives in zoos of our own design.” ~Christopher Ryan It’s an odd thing to notice you are conscious. Most humans don’t discern they are conscious. They see the doing as why we are here. They feel separate. They act like…

Life doesn’t happen one event, one emotion, or one idea at a time. We live in a complex world of simultaneity. I’ve been noticing a trend in the personal development realm toward monotasking rather than multitasking. And while the sentiment feels refreshing and ecstatically liberating, even if we are choosing to complete one task at…

What if you had a treasure map that led directly to a life of ease and flow? Would you wait to use it? Pleasure is that treasure map. Here’s the dilemma: The only person who can give you permission to use it anytime you want is you. I see it every day in my office.…

A Reflection on Faithful Intention I remember moving this ussie that Bri took of us (with his left hand you may notice) in the woods of the Upper Peninsula to a spot in our kitchen where it remains to this day. I did that then because, nine years ago Bri was moved to a rehabilitation…